
The most unsatisfactory men are those who pride themselves on their
virility and regard sex as if it were some form of athletics at which you
win cups. It is a woman's spirit and mood which a man has to stimulate in
order to make sex interesting.  The real lover is the man who can thrill
you by just touching your head or smiling into your eyes -- or just by
staring into space.
		-- Marilyn Monroe
